From elementary through high school, students are dialed in, connecting 24/7 with family and friends. Cell phones are not only used for making phone calls. Newer technology is in place and our children’s cell phones are now equipped with cameras and, in many cases, Internet access. Because of this, children bullying other children by using a mobile phone has become a growing problem.

What is a phone bully?
Phone bullies use text messaging and social networking websites to harass, embarrass, exploit and intimidate other kids. This problem goes beyond the school day. The phone bully uses technology to spread his or her offensive messages, embarrassing photos and false rumors to a large group of peers very quickly.

What can kids do if they are being bullied via cell phone?
Become a detective!

If you are being bullied, it’s almost certain that you personally know who is sending the abusive text messages or calls. Think through your list of “friends” and ask yourself who might be doing this. Jealousy, envy and rejection are the most common reasons given for bullying.

Recognize when a message is inappropriate or potentially harmful. Keep a detailed journal, noting the date, time, and caller ID information and phone number (if there is one).

Most importantly, get immediate help from a trusted adult. Never ignore any kind of threat.

What can parents do if a child is being bullied via cell phone?
Sending inappropriate language or photos may violate the cell phone companies “Terms and Conditions.” Do not erase the messages or pictures on your child’s cell phone. Save them as evidence. Cell phone service providers can respond to reports of cyberbullying over their networks, or help you to track down the appropriate service provider.

Cell phone are an important part of teen social life. You have the ability to block text messaging capabilities through your phone service provider. Often times, simply blocking texting for several days will discourage the bully from sending further harassing messages.

Given that your child most likely knows the bully, on way to uncover his or her identity is to change the cell phone number and advice your child to share the new number with only one person at a time.

If you believe the threats are serious, please contact the police.

Resources
thatsnotcool.com – Your cell phone, IM and social networks are all a digital expression of who you are. When someone you’re with pressures you or disrespects you in those places, that’s not cool.

Be Web Aware - Challenging Cyber Bullying – Cyberbullying and the law, The role of Internet service providers (ISPs) and cell phone service providers, taking action.